The moment you are born
Romina's poem is one of the winners of our Call for Poems and Writing Pieces on gender-based violence.
GENDER BASED VIOLENCE
Romina Grigore
11/21/20231 min read
The moment you are born
You’re coming alone
On this earth
Without saying a word to your mother, your father and those around you
At the age of 3 you hear your father saying that he wanted you to be a boy
To carry on his name
And your mother’s heart is full of blame
At 7, when you get to school, you are told not to touch the toys with your brown hands
And you listen to them
At the age of 14, your classmates start laughing at you cause your breasts have grown
And you try to hide them so bad that you stick them with adhesive
Alone.
At 16, you make your first boyfriend
He’s sweet, amazing , all that you want
But at 17, he slaps you for the first time
You don’t feel well, but you accept this hard road climb
In 3 years you already have your first child, a girl
Your husband is getting more and more angry
Your head is full of whirls
“Don’t you dare to come to me!”
Your momma says this
At the age of 21 you want to find a job
“You’re not qualified for this”
“Are you staying in that soiled community?”
“As you can see we all have white skin and you can’t integrate “
Just a sob.
You keep all your feelings inside
Your husband beats you all the time
The society puts a label on you
And on your body too
Now , you are 30
Your baby girl is growing
“Hurry”,
“You’re late for school!”
So you keep going
You wanna offer her a life without violence
Do you know that is not possible?”
Unfortunately, you can’t hide her identity and her gender
You don’t want to be invisible
“Remember my name, it’s going to be huge one day”
It’s not your fault that you are living in a world where “to be human” its a quality, not a normality
You keep getting the bullets for her
Cause that’s how you can protect the purity
You, powerful woman, make my eyes kind of blur
With just simplicity.